Step 4: Immerse Yourself in the Process
Work together step by step. Stir, mix, and follow his directions, but also allow stories to unfold naturally. Each movement—chopping, simmering, tasting—becomes a way to connect to his memories and family traditions.
Step 5: Taste and Reflect
Finally, take a bite. Savor not just the flavors but the history they carry. Each taste is a memory, each texture a bridge to his Southern upbringing. Discuss what it feels like and let the stories flow freely.
Step 6: Appreciate the Meaning
Step back and realize this was never just about the food or the activity. The repeated mentions, the anecdotes, the shared process—they’re invitations into his world. Celebrate the understanding, the closeness, and the shared memory that you now carry together.
