Common RSVP Mistakes to Avoid
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Writing “Me” or “Myself”: Resist the urge to write “Me!” or “Me and my boyfriend.” While humorous, the couple or their wedding planner needs full names to create place cards and meal counts.
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Ignoring Non-“M” Titles: If you or your partner have a title that doesn’t start with “M” (such as Dr., Professor, Captain, or Reverend), simply draw a thin line through the printed “M” and write your complete title and name beside it.
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Adding Uninvited Guests: Only list the names of people explicitly addressed on the outer envelope. If your invitation was addressed only to you without a “plus one,” the “M” line should only contain your name.
Why the “M” Line is Fading Away
In recent years, many couples have moved away from traditional etiquette in favor of clearer, gender-neutral phrasing on their response cards. Modern alternatives often replace the “M” line with simpler prompts like:
“Name(s): __________________________”
“Guests Attending: __________________”
“Who is coming? ____________________”
Whether you’re dealing with a vintage letterpress RSVP card or an online form, remembering that “M” stands for your title will ensure your response gets back to the couple gracefully and on time
